What kind of sissy are you?
No matter the type, you are MY sissy!
Ms. Christine has done such a wonderful job making a list of all these different kinds of sissies, but I just want to know which way you swing. Are you a lesbian sissy, or a gay sissy? As a sissy, do you like to hang out with the other ladies, or the guys? There’s no wrong answer here, but if you know what kind of sissy you are, we can develop a great fantasy phone sex call.
The Lesbian Sissy
The lesbian sissy wants to hang around with the other ladies. You want to serve your Mistress, and make her happy, all while you’re dressed like a pretty gurl. You don’t necessarily want to become a gurl, but you certainly do like dressing up as one and strutting around. You enjoy playing with your sissy clit, and hope I’ll allow you to have a squirting orgasm!
The Gay Sissy
This is the type of sissy I wrote my 12-Step Sissy Program for. The gay sissy wants to be a gurl, through and through. You like hanging out with the ladies for the same reason every girl has girlfriends, but what you really want is a boyfriend…preferable one with a big, thick, throbbing cock. One who can make your jaw sore, and fill your sissy pussy. It’s all about the cock for you, sissy! And that’s someone else’s cock – because you don’t have one. You have a sissy clit, one you wish would actually shrink down to the size of a real clit, so you could feel even more like a gurl.
I’ve already a lesbian sissy, you and Ms Olivia have turned my body into a girls body. I’ve lost all my weight/muscle I have the curves, breasts, none of my clothes fit as they are to big. Now its yoga pants, mules, ankle boots, boots, sheath/body con dresses, bras, panties, boy shorts, turtle neck sweaters , tops. As well as French manicures, long black wig glued to my head.
Oh peter,
I have missed you!
Ms. Olivia and I really enjoy sissifying you!! It is VERY sexy!
Ms. Delia
Oh Peter, how wonderful, i can only imagine the intense pleasure of being sissified by those two!
Btw Mistress, I think i must have more conflicted than most sissies, ………… I’m afraid ……. I’m both! Why me!
Vanessa, is there anything wrong with being both? Nope! It just means you are more open to all the good feelings and sexual pleasures both sexes have to offer. Embrace that!
Ms. Delia
Ms Olivia and I DO love to sissify men together. It is a VERY hot 2 Mistress call!
Hi, Empress Delia.
I know that I’m a gay sissy.
It’s sort of funny that everyone in my life knows I’m this way these days, as I tried to live my life as a butch, straight guy. I actually made myself believe that for awhile, as I told myself that the feminine feelings that I had–such as when I would dress up pretty in secret and imagine myself being with a masculine man–didn’t really mean anything.
But I never felt very comfortable trying to take on the butch role. Such as in trying to be like the other guys in getting with a girl. The only real success that I’ve had in that department is when women hit on me. Otherwise it was embarrassing and awkward for me.
Plus, I had a limp dick with the girls, when I did manage to get in their panties. It was only with a very wonderful middle-aged woman during my early twenties that I was even able to perform with a female, and it was actually very intense between us. She was the one who hit on me, and during our relationship I learned that she had strong lesbian fantasies. Looking back, I think she must have been attracted to my rather feminine disposition, since in the masculinity department the most I’ve ever been is something akin to an early teenage boy, which is how I look. She eventually broke up with me, I think because she realized just how feminine I did feel, and that wasn’t something she felt totally comfortable with. (For instance, I had actually shared with her some aspects of my crossdressing, and on a number of occasions we made love with me dressed in some of her clothes. During one of our lovemaking sessions, she even anally fingered me as if I were the girl.)
I tried over and over again to stop crossdressing in secret and to stop fantasizing about men, but no matter how hard I tried, I’d always come back to it. I eventually came to the realization that this is actually who I am, and that it’s not going away. That’s when I came out to my mom.
My mom was very accepting of me when I came out to her, and she has really helped me in giving me confidence to come out to the world. Now everyone in my life knows that I’m a very feminine gay male.
I dress fully in obviously feminine attire these days, except for a bra, as I’m not on hormones and haven’t had surgery, so I don’t have boobs. I don’t want to wear anything fake, such as padding. But otherwise I dress as a woman my age would dress, including carrying a purse when I go out, and of course panties underneath my outerwear.
It feels really nice to be able to live my life femininely. I feel much more comfortable with myself this way, such as not having to worry anymore about whether I’m holding my wrists limp, sashaying my hips when I walk, or speaking with too high of a voice. I used to feel uncomfortable in my own skin, as I used to worry when I was interacting with people whether or not they could tell that I dress pretty in secret while daydreaming about men–that my dark, shameful secret might be discernible to others, just by how I look and carry myself.
So it was very hard for me to get here, but now that I am, it’s actually such a relief to be out of the closet as a gay sissy. I don’t feel that uncomfortableness anymore in trying to be something that I’m not.
Plus, as you mention above, Empress Delia, I particularly feel so much more comfortable in interacting with women. It feels far more natural to me to relate to women as a feminine person. I love sitting and chatting with women about girl stuff, particularly about our guys. It’s such a nice feeling to be let into the women’s circle as one of them.
I have a steady man I’m with, and it feels very wonderful. I love being his girl.
You also mentioned the lovemaking aspect of being a gay sissy, Empress Delia. I used to feel so conflicted about my desires for a manly-man, but since I’ve fully accepted myself as a gay sissy, its such a wondrous delight to behold his aroused manhood in my hands while rubbing it over my face. It makes me feel so wanted and desired to see and feel the proof of my man’s lust for me. I love how my man’s shaft grows long, thick and hard, with its head swelling up, and the veins on it popping out. Oh, I feel so dainty and feminine holding that raging hard-on in my hands as I rub its bulbous head around my lips, letting it part them as it slips inside my mouth. Oh, it makes me feel so girlie!
It’s hard for me to express just how much joy I feel in getting to be the feminine partner for my man during lovemaking. As much as I adore kissing, licking and sucking my man’s throbbing dick, the way I like it the best is when he takes me anally, which is as close as I can come to doing vaginal with a man. That makes me feel the most feminine of all. I feel so utterly womanly, so matronly, so wifely as my man makes love to me like that. I love it when my smooth-shaven legs are up on his shoulders while we kiss mouth-to-mouth as his virile member is sliding into me. To feel the long, thick, throbbing, thrusting proof of his lust for me, inside my most intimate place, is such a delightfully erotic and oh-so-pleasurable sensation! Feeling that engorged mushroom head slipping back and forth across my prostate just makes me melt and shudder in his strong arms as he drives me into cock-loving girlieland.
It’s funny that something I once fought so hard against is something that I treasure so much today. Nowadays I wouldn’t trade being a gay sissy for all the tea in China!
Jamie Michelle!
This is such a wonderful reflection 🙂
Your story is touching, and I love how you shared it with all of the femfabulous readers!! I am so happy you have a sexy man in your life, and you are dressing and feeling more and more feminine every day!!
Keep up the great work!
I love hearing this kind of progress!!
🙂 Congrats!
Ms. Delia
Hi, Empress Delia. I thank you for your appreciation of my post.
I think there are actually a lot of limp-dick girlie males who would love living their lives as the feminine partner of a masculine man. It’s just that mainstream society is so against that. And so such feminine males have to go through such a struggle to find themselves, if they even can manage to find themselves–as many just go through life either in denial or in the closet.
It took me until I was age 23 years to fully realize and accept that I’m a gay sissy who loves masculine men. So I love the dick. What of it? Women are allowed to love dick, why can’t I?
So I love being held in the arms of a big, burly man. So do many women. Why can’t I love the same things many women love?
I also love dressing pretty and being dainty. Many women love this, too. But because I am a boy, it’s not acceptable.
Well, I can’t help the fact that I have feminine feelings. I tried to live my life denying those feelings, and it was just a sad joke, as I can’t be a masculine male however hard I try.
I’m a dainty, feminine male, and that is just what I am. So I love wearing frilly, pretty clothing. And I love being held by my strong man. I love it when his massive arms are wrapped around me. I love feeling his beard against my cheeks and lips. And I love it when he makes love to me, with me as the lady. Oh, that is the best!
So since I’ve accepted myself as a dainty gay sissy, I have loved my life. Rather than trying to be something that I’m not, I can just be who I am.
I wish society wasn’t so down on males who are feminine or gay, as this creates so much distress for femme boys like me in coming to terms with ourselves. But for the boys like me who are able to reach their femmespot, it is so wonderful to be girlie all the time!
I agree, Jamie Michelle!
You go an enjoy your life as a dainty, effeminate man who lives to be a gay sissy! You go girl!
🙂 Ms. Delia
Good question. i know that i want to be as girlie and as feminine as possible. The rush of feminine energy that comes with being able to connect with my inner girl is totally affirming. Being with the girls and talking girl talk – fashions, feelings, men, gossip is soo comfy. And it is women i love, want to serve and be with. But i hope i still get to suck some cock once in awhile. so beautiful and commanding.
I love that answer, susan…
And I hope you do one day get to serve a woman who will let you sick a cock every now and again. 🙂 Variety is certainly the spice of life!
Ms. Delia