Shopping for Lingerie
As part of the 2019 feminization plan, for this month our goal is to get you shopping for lingerie. Earlier in the month, you measured for lingerie and then looked online to get a sense of your sizes in different stores.
Going to a Store to Shop for Lingerie
I have asked for help with this answer. Why? I think it is important for you to read not just from a mistress who easily can go in and out of a lingerie store, but to also read from someone who had been there years ago. There is a special kind of wisdom that comes with the experience of doing. I asked kneelcc, my collared one, what worked for him early one. This is what he said:
My biggest worry, when I started, was a salesperson knowing what I was doing and calling me out. So I came up with a cover story in my head that I was buying for the wife. The interesting thing was that no one ever really asked. In all his years and trips, only had 1 older lady (70ish) say, “I bet you look really good in those,” when we were in the checkout line. I always found salespeople to be helpful.
The second worry I had was finding good lingerie and clothes that would not break the bank, so I could collect more things and have varied looks. I shopped bigger department stores for this. I got most lingerie at Burlington Coat Factory, TJ Maxx and Ross’s Clearance Rack. My thought was always “How much do I want to spend for something I won’t wear outside the house?” I liked getting dresses on clearance that way.
The third concern I had was trying on in the store. That was too much for me, so I did not try things on in the store. I shopped good clearance things at outlet stores, and Walmart too. If something did not fit right, I never had to worry about returning things because they were not costly.
I think that is just the very best advice from someone who has been in your shoes. My advice is to enjoy shopping. No one will know it is for you in most circumstances. Walk through and see what catches the eye. Have fun dressing so you feel the most feminine.
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I want to do this in person!!! But it would have to be out of town as family/co workers would find out along with people who know me:( I’ve never tried on dresses in shops as I really want to. It would be thrill and rush. Love to have you/Ms Erika/Ms Olivia on phone when this happens. With feminization circuit training program throughout year/life long assignments this needs to happen to me as I really am a weak submissive soft helpless feminine cream puff girl forever and need to accept and realize it. Paulina is who I have become and she needs to be part of me forever.
That is wonderful advice I’ve come up with a lot of cover stories over the years but I do run into a experienced sales clerk who figure it’s for me to wear. If they ask I’m honest and discreet. They find this really refreshing so they help me even more by picking out items that I tend to wear. So your biggest fear can turn out to be the best thing ever so girl-up a shop!
I just came across this post. This is nerve racking for me. More so than it should be I know. I don’t know who I am more afraid of – the young sales girls or the older women. They all terrify me. I have only done it a couple of times. I feel like “they know”. But I do not know that they know. Then I think maybe it is okay if they do? Am I doing anything wrong? I just feel very weak and vulnerable.
Oh sweetie!
It is normal to be nervous. Have you tried walmart or similar stores? You can buy anything there…and no one looks.
God luck
Oh that is a good idea. Walmart. I never thought of it. I’ve mainly tried Macy’s and Victoria’s Secret and got terrified in both. In Victoria’s I was intimidated as the sales girls were young. At Macys they were older and still very scary. I think the young ones frightened me the most though.
Hi Jerry!
Let me know how you do at Walmart! It can be scary, but You can do it!
Ms. Delia
I went to a store called Maidenform. I tried to go at a quiet time when it was empty but their were two salesladies and I got too nervous. I tried Victoria’s Secret but the sales girls were young and I found that even more scary. I was literally afraid of (20’s?) girls. So I went to Macy’s. They had a huge and overwhelming selection. I wish I could have had a sales lady help me but I was way too nervous for that.
How would I even ask? I finally just sort of selected something that looked nice without looking too close.
A pair of pink panties, simple embroidery on side and some stockings. My heart was racing. I had a choice of two cashier ladies and they both looked “mean” so that scared me too. I did make it out with the purchase. I just wish there was a calmer way.
Oh jerry!!!
I know that you must have felt the RUSH! And here is what I would say…
If you LOVE that rush, go again to the stores. If not, shop online. You can measure at home, and I can help!
Ms. Delia