Steps to Becoming Feminized Part 2
In part one of this feminization series, I discussed some of the first basic steps a man should take when he realizes he needs to act on those feminine feelings that have always been a part of him. This week, we will discuss some tougher, more advanced steps.
3 Advanced Feminization Steps
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Hair Removal is a HUGE step when becoming more feminine. Think of it. Smooth underarms, legs, back, chest, and even forearms. If you are wearing nylons, panties and a bra hair showing will never look good! Best to remove the hair with a cream, shaving, or even waxing. When you decide to do it permanently, laser hair removal may be a great option.
- Telling the saleswoman in the store. Now, it is Ms. Delia’s philosophy that you do not impose your kink on anyone. However, in a lingerie store, it is appropriate to ask if this item comes in your size and to get recommendations for other pieces. Asking for help is fine, and should be done. I have had many crossdressers develop great relationships in many stores, and shopping became a breeze!
- Shoes and accessories are an important step to helping you look and feel feminine! I love jewelry, and have it spread out on a wall in my closet. I have all the colors hanging in color families, and I choose what matches my outfits. Shoes are the same, but learning to walk in them is crucial! There are many videos online, and suggestions in this blog!
Feminization Steps Coming Next
These steps toward feminization should be more difficult than the last three steps, but I am sure with some guidance from me you will do a great job! Next week, I have a few more tips that get into the psychological and even spiritual femininity changes you will need to make to feel wonderfully feminine! Stay Femfabulous, and let me know your best tips!
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I’ve been getting waxed for 13 years and I love the soft smooth girlish skin. Everything fits better. The bras/panties/slip feel so soft against my skin. Yes I need to ask salesgirl as I’m going to start buying women’s clothes. I’ve done it once and told her. She smiled and called me dear and lead me to yoga pants/leggings section. I’ve done it with makeup lady as well. And yes heels/ankle/knee high boots are hot! Women at salon wear them and I feel weask & submissive that I want to wear them with yoga pants/bra/panties under my shirt. I’ve mentioned about getting makeup at salon and they’ve said they will do it. I’m going to. Just afaraid people I know will see me and I will make mess in my panties. 🙁 I want them to make me their sissy.
MS Delia- I love the series of tips you are sharing, having the callers take bigger and potentially scarier steps towards becoming who they really are! I agree on never imposing your kink on unsuspecting sales clerks, and I often recommend doing the research at home online to determine your size, even if you have to still ask for help at the store. Knowledge can be a confidence booster, so working out what size X number inches really means in woman’s sizes can help her feel less out of place. I also agree on the advice to practice practice practice walking in heels! Even a slight heel needs to be adjusted to! I can’t wait to see what other feminization steps you and your readers discuss.
Thanks, Stephanie!
Tomorrow will be even more wonderful…it was for me. It discusses the inside, not outward things. 🙂 Glad you are enjoying the series!