To Pass Or Not To Pass
That is the question, isn’t it my crossdressing pets? Do you want to pass as a sexy girl or not? You may think that’s a silly question. Some of you may be saying, “Ms. Delia what’s the point of dressing if you can’t pass? “ Really though, there is no right or wrong answer to this one. Everyone who crossdresses does it for their own reasons. And for a good number of you, it really has nothing to do with passing. For most of you, the bottom line is, it has to do with how you feel.
There’s a good number of people out there who believe that those who crossdresers are gay. Nothing could be further from the truth. Don’t let erotica or any other fiction mislead you. Most crossdressers are not gay at all – most aren’t even bi. Joe Namath used to wear pantyhose – and he wasn’t gay, even tried to kiss Suzy Kolber on air (of course, he often had his hands on another man’s ass, but that was “work-related”)! He wore them because they felt good and because they kept his legs warm. And for many crossdressers, it’s about the feelings that women’s clothes give them. They like the silky feel of a nice pair of lace panties (you panty bois know I’m talking to you!)
Those Who Dress EnFemme
I even know a good number of crossdressing men whose wives love it when they slip on a bustier. When they go out shopping, these women love that they’re out with someone who can help them with fashion. Their sexual play may revolve around the humiliation aspects, or having a lesbian affair- their special girlfriend. They ‘re completely hetero – except for the clothes. Or both partners may gender swap, and they can have fun letting her be the “top” guy for a change.
It’s all in how it makes you feel. So pass, or don’t pass, just have fun doing it!