To Pass Or Not To Pass
That is the question, isn’t it my crossdressing pets? Do you want to pass as a sexy girl or not? You may think that’s a silly question. Some of you may be saying, “Ms. Delia what’s the point of dressing if you can’t pass? “ Really though, there is no right or wrong answer to this one. Everyone who crossdresses does it for their own reasons. And for a good number of you, it really has nothing to do with passing. For most of you, the bottom line is, it has to do with how you feel.
Crossdressing Myths
There’s a good number of people out there who believe that those who crossdresers are gay. Nothing could be further from the truth. Don’t let erotica or any other fiction mislead you. Most crossdressers are not gay at all – most aren’t even bi. Joe Namath used to wear pantyhose – and he wasn’t gay, even tried to kiss Suzy Kolber on air (of course, he often had his hands on another man’s ass, but that was “work-related”)! He wore them because they felt good and because they kept his legs warm. And for many crossdressers, it’s about the feelings that women’s clothes give them. They like the silky feel of a nice pair of lace panties (you panty bois know I’m talking to you!)
Those Who Dress EnFemme
I even know a good number of crossdressing men whose wives love it when they slip on a bustier. When they go out shopping, these women love that they’re out with someone who can help them with fashion. Their sexual play may revolve around the humiliation aspects, or having a lesbian affair- their special girlfriend. They ‘re completely hetero – except for the clothes. Or both partners may gender swap, and they can have fun letting her be the “top” guy for a change.
It’s all in how it makes you feel. So pass, or don’t pass, just have fun doing it!
I love being your sissy Ms Delia. You have me on strict diet and weight less then you. I fit into your clothes and you’ve givin me girlish curves, breasts, French manicure as punishisment for going into to your panty drawer wearing your panties and bras as well as your dresses and clothes. Also you made me keep my skin girlish soft and smooth at all times to take away my man hood. I’ve no choice. Looking forward to calling you as you keep me dressed and looking girlish as we resume your Turing me into your sissy pet.
Yet another thought provoking topic. Yes, i love to wear all sorts of soft, frilly, sexy undergarments next to my shaved skin. Why should the feel of silk, satin, and lace up against the skin only be enjoyed by women? i believe saying it is taboo for men to wear those kind of things is just another of those well kept secrets they don’t want us to know about, much less enjoy. As You know, i have become fully aware of the root of this clever deception and love to wear my sexy lingerie, as well as stockings, wigs, heels, dresses, and breast forms. As far as feeling the need to pass, i get such a charge out of how hot You get watching my transformation and turning me into Your private little slut, i don’t need to go outside to do that. i just view it as providing more options for You to use me to meet the needs of the “mood” You’re in at any given time. Being Your little lesbian lover is always a favorite, but it’s not too far ahead of when Your packing for a bit of role reversal and gender bending.;)
I love role reversal and genderbending!
I have to say neelia, that your transformations on cam are SO hot! I can’t get enough of them. You really have come such a long way from just a hint of make up to a full, feminine transformation. You look amazing!
Ms. Delia
Hi peter!
Whenever I catch you going through my panty basket, you know you will get punished! I can’t think of a better punishment than to turn you into my total sissy pet!
Ms. Delia
When I was in my 30’s, I put a great deal of effort in trying to pass.
Once I got a handle on which colors and styles of clothing looked good on me. Colors and application of makeup, and a flattering hairstyle. I found that I enjoyed being recognized as a male in women’s clothing!
Hi Dena!
I like that you enjoyed being seen as a man in women’s clothing. Wasn’t it fun finding out your colors & style?
🙂 Ms. Delia