Do you need a spa day at home to help you feel feminine? Sissy Spa Days can be important for self-care. Ms. Delia wanted to help you to create a special spa day for yourself at home. We will discuss how to prepare your space, and ways to exfoliate and moisturize in a way that you can repeat this daily add some feminine luxury to your day. If you ever want a fast assignment, here is my tip you can use for soft feminine hands every day!
Sissy Spa Day Prep – Bathroom Spa Space
A sissy needs a bathroom to primp in! Now, of course, bathrooms are clutter hubs! If you are a man who loves to primp and crossdress or if you are a sissy who already has 27 tools in her bathroom, your first step is to organize.
I am crazy clean about my bathroom. Weekly I do the floors windows counters and mirrors just because I love how it shines. Sissy will need to have part of the counter clean for her hair and makeup tools, so focus on clearing clutter, tucking important things away behind doors and in drawers, and carving out a space where you can set up your spa items including exfoliators and moisturizers.
Here is where you can bend the rules if you have a female bath partner. Ask about moisture bath wash. Go for gender-neutral, like Dove Ultra Moisturizing. There is no reason why you could not add a skincare routine and moisture to your day!
Ask me about my favorite picks for a gender-neutral bath experience.
Sissy Spa Day Begins with Exfoliation
I am sure you feel it, sweetie! Your skin with all the cooler weather is likely tight, itchy, dry, and even flaky. Let’s face it, sissy, it is not at all sexy to have rough skin! Your special sissy spa will include all the tools to make your pretty skin glow! Think of this as a sissy school so you will learn all the tips and tricks to being feminine!
Here are some tips for exfoliating your skin and face.
1. You need a good exfoliator! I like a good body scrub for the shower. It’s not too abrasive and really helps to lift off the dead skin cells so your whole body will be smooth and pretty. You can exfoliate weekly in the shower to notice a difference in skin.
2. Exfoliate your skin in the shower. Warm water is better for your skin. Sissy Spa Day takes off with you looking clean and fresh.
3. Use a clean towel to pat your skin dry when done. Do not rub your skin! It is just not necessary. Rubbing your skin will do the opposite of what you want, but patting will lock the moisture in!
For your face exfoliation is different. Use two types of exfoliation. The first one should be a chemical exfoliant, which is applied to your face once every two weeks. Retinol is great for this and is perfect for your skin.
The second type of exfoliation is physical exfoliation which should be used every day. Your main tool is going to be a good facial brush. Remember that we have discussed the importance of facial cleansing! I recommend a soft and gentle Facial Brush. I keep one in my bathroom and one in my makeup cabinet.
As a bonus, exfoliate your lips with a sugar scrub: Apply a small amount of natural lip scrub to your lips. Using a clean finger, gently massage your top and bottom lips. When you’re finished, rinse off any excess or lick it away. Do this once or twice a week.
Next Step Moisturizers
Now that you have exfoliated, you must take some time to moisturize your body, face, and lips. A sissy spa needs moisturization to help you feel your softest and best!
Skin is made up of about 75% water, so you need to hydrate your skin. For your body and face, it is important to use a specific water-based moisturizer that contains hyaluronic acid and ceramides to help retain moisture in your skin.
This hyaluronic acid molecule holds up to 1000X its weight in water and when applied to the skin, creates a barrier to prevent moisture loss.
It is important to find a product that also has ceramides and fatty acids because they will help to strengthen the skin barrier.
Keep in mind, your skin should feel moisturized and soft to the touch, not greasy or oily. Avoid using heavy creams or oils and opt for lightweight, water-based moisturizers.
Finally, apply lip balm: Apply a natural lip balm at least twice a day to moisturize and protect your lips. I like to apply mine before putting on makeup and before I go to bed. Of course, there’s no reason not to use it throughout the day as well!
You can enjoy this type of spa day anytime, even every day as long as you follow these steps and always get girlie for Mistress.
Always remember to be FemFabulous for Ms. Delia